But to me, I thought differently. He was a father who sacrificed his entire life for his children. If I turned my back on him, who would take care of him?
Twelve Years of Trial
Those twelve years weren’t easy. I was young, often feeling tired and alone. When my husband was working in Manila, I was left alone to care for our little daughter and Tatay Ramón, who was already weak. I cooked, washed, and stayed up late at night monitoring his breathing.
Once, exhausted, I said to him:
“Father, I’m just your daughter-in-law… sometimes I feel a great weight on my chest.”
He just smiled gently and, with trembling hands, took mine:
“I know, daughter. That’s why I’m even more grateful. Without you, maybe I wouldn’t be here anymore.”
I’ll never forget those words. From then on, I promised myself to do everything possible to make his life more bearable. Every winter, I bought him a thick coat and a blanket. When his stomach hurt, I cooked him rice soup. When his feet hurt, I massaged them tenderly.
I never expected that one day he would leave me something. I did it because I considered him like my own father.
The Last Moment
As time passed, Tatay Ramón grew weaker. At 85, the doctor at the provincial hospital said his heart was very weak. A few days before his last night, he used to call me to his bedside to tell me stories of his youth and remind his children and grandchildren to live with honor.
